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“ A collection of submitted anecdotes about how small circumstances and decisions completely changed the course of someone’s life. ”
“ A good list full of common sense. You’ll nod your head a lot. ”
100 People Who Are Screwing Up America: (and Al Franken is #37)
740 Park: The Story of the World’s Richest Apartment Building
“I bailed out on this book at exactly the halfway point (50% on the nose, according to my Kindle). I had such high hopes, but the book was essentially just a recitation of the lives of the people who lived at 740 Park Ave. Chapter after chapter was a dissection of these people’s lives, to the point…”
1913: In Search of the World Before the Great War
“An interesting look at the world in 1913, before the Great War. The book doesn’t mention the looming war, and that’s kind of the point. It goes city-by-city, discussing what was happening in each, on the eve of World War 1. The result is…interesting. The book paints the picture of the world as a…”
“A showdown is looming on American Idol which I think is going to be pretty interesting to watch. The top two contenders – the two I firmly believe will fight it out in the last episode – could not be more opposed in terms of lifestyle. We have… Danny Gokey , a widowed church music director from…”
After His Mother Died, Adam Smith Found The Secret in the Freezer
“ A man’s recently-deceased mother had always kept a box in the very back of the freezer and refused to say what was in it. The box had been there as long as he and his sister could remember. He finally opened it. ”
The Almost Nearly Perfect People: Behind the Myth of the Scandinavian Utopia
“A thoroughly enjoyable book discussing the five Nordic countries – Norway, Sweden, Finland, Iceland, and Denmark – and their supposedly unassailable credentials as the utopia of the world. The author is an Englishman, married to a Danish woman and living in Denmark. He deconstructs the myth of…”
Alone Together: Why We Expect More from Technology and Less from Each Other
Americans Who Mainly Get Their News on Social Media Are Less Engaged, Less Knowledgeable
“ A survey that seems to prove that consuming news primarily via social media causes you to be less engaged and more likely to fall for conspiracy theories. ”
Amusing Ourselves to Death: Public Discourse in the Age of Show Business
And the Band Played on: Politics, People, And the AIDS Epidemic
“ It comes from the ancient Greek word ‘nomos,’ which means ‘custom’ or ‘law.’ The prefix ‘a-’ means this is the opposite of that. ”
Anywhere but Saudi Arabia: Experiences of a Once Reluctant Expat
The Art of Community: Seven Principles for Belonging
“ Good overview of the enduring ‘principles’ of a community. Lots of examples from CrossFit, interestingly. ”
At Home: A Short History of Private Life
Becoming a Man
“ A short memoir of a lesbian who transitioned, and what he learned about manhood in the process from the men in his life. Equal parts inspiring and heart-breaking. ”
Becoming Wise: An Inquiry Into the Mystery and Art of Living
Behind Closed Doors: The Secret Life of London’s Private Members’ Clubs
“I have a romantic view of social clubs, especially those in London. I think I get it from James Bond novels. I love the idea of upper class Englishmen having a whisky at ‘the club’ while debating politics or other matters of world importance. This book is a wonderfully readable history of those…”
Big Data: A Revolution That Will Transform How We Live, Work, and Think
“wonderful book. presents a wire-ranging looking at the big data phenomenon, specifically on the technological and societal changes that have occurred to bring it about, and what this means to the future. things like: Our sample sizes are increasing. For many applications, we’re able to poll n =…”
Bigger Secrets: More Than 125 Things They Prayed You’d Never Find Out
Biggest Secrets: More Uncensored Truth about All Sorts of Stuff You Are Never Supposed to Know
Blueprint: The Evolutionary Origins of a Good Society
Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents
Catch and Kill: Lies, Spies, and a Conspiracy to Protect Predators
Change: How to Make Big Things Happen
The Conservative Heart: How to Build a Fairer, Happier, and More Prosperous America
“I’m not really a Conservative, but I do a fair amount of conservative reading. With that perspective, this is a well-written and thoughtful book. Its basic premise is this: Liberal policies have hurt people, especially the poor. Disadvantaged Americans are no better off than when LBJ’s ‘War on…”
The Conservative’s Handbook: Defining the Right Position on Issues from A to Z
“I am a Democrat. I like to think of myself as liberal, but sometimes I think I just say this to be contrarian. Sure enough, this book has me thinking I’m much more conservative than I say I am. I read this because I’ve been looking for years for a clear elucidation of conservative values. I have…”
Conspiracy theories may seem irrational, but they fulfill a basic human need
“ Humans need to assign causes to events that make sense to them. And if we’re not happy with the actual cause of something, we’ll invent one. ”
Constantly Wrong: The Case Against Conspiracy Theories
“ An irreverent documentary about the concept of conspiracy theories and why some people need to believe that there are grand, hidden secrets to the world. ”
Cooperation and Coercion: How Busybodies Became Busybullies and What that Means for Economics and Politics
“This is a weird one. This is both a review of this book, and experiment in reading style and strategy. I decided to try something new with this book: I decided to give it one hour of my time, and see how much I could get out of it. If you search for ‘how to read like a graduate student,’ you’ll…”
Coronavirus Is a Preview of Our Self-Isolating Future
“ The Coronavirus might be the thing that tips us into a vastly expanded world of remote work, where physical contact is deemed to be largely unnecessary. The long-term effects on society – both good and bad – might be considerable. ”
Cult of the Dead Cow: How the Original Hacking Supergroup Might Just Save the World
“The Cult of the Dead Cow was an early hacker group, formed in the 1980s. This book tells its story over the years and where everyone ended up. It’s…scattered. There are a lot of people, and the scope is large. The book is essentially trying to follow a fractured group of people over 40-some-odd…”
“ For every developer doing amazing, cutting-edge things and writing about it on the web, there are 99 that just get work done every day using boring technology that still works just fine. ”
The Death Of Expertise: The Campaign Against Established Knowledge and Why it Matters
“This is essentially a long-form rant against the fact that (1) people think they’re experts when they’re clearly not, and (2) they tend to look down on actual expertise and distrust experts. It was both inspiring and infuriating. The author writes well, but he offered no solutions. So, take it for…”
Diffusion of Innovations
“Classic book (in its fifth edition) about how new ideas spread. I like how Rogers has a set of ‘generalizations’ about his ideas. These are things that might not be proven by statistics but feel generally correct. A lot of network theory, but a very good read. Just the right mixture of density and…”
The digital death of collecting
“ A reflection on why we collect physical things and why the digital equivalents will never be the same. ”
Not graduating from high school causes people to judge you, for all sorts of reasons.
The Divorce Colony: How Women Revolutionized Marriage and Found Freedom on the American Frontier
“Downtown, where all the lights are bright.”
If we had to re-make cities from scratch, would they have downtowns?
Educated
“Absolutely, one of the best books I’ve read in years. Enraging in places, it’s one of those books where you watch the protagonist suffer, and make choices you don’t really understand because you’re not as deep into the situation as they are. But, in the end, you have some appreciation for how they…”
“Almost everybody has heard of ‘The 10,000 Hour Rule,’ which says it takes 10,000 hours of practice to master anything. I actually read the original study (PDF) last year. But I’ve often wondered about the limits of this theory. Does there exist people who simply will never master something, no…”
Eggs are Expensive, Sperm is Cheap: 50 Politically Incorrect Thoughts for Men
“This book was recommended by a friend. This friend is a social, religious, and political conservative, with very specific opinions on the separation of genders. I did not want to like this book. But, in the end, I agreed with far more than I disagreed with. The book is very well-written. The first…”
Empire of Illusion: The End of Literacy and the Triumph of Spectacle
“This is a book about how we don’t like reality anymore. We like the illusion of reality. As a society, we’re addicted to farce. It’s almost hilarious that this was written in 2009. If only the author had seen what was coming. He talks about ‘the illusion of literacy,’ by contrasting it against…”
Enlightenment Now: The Case for Reason, Science, Humanism, and Progress
“This book makes the case that (1) the world is better now on almost every quantifiable dimension than at any other time in its history, and (2) this is because of the decline of religion. Pinker’s main point is that religion is bad and makes the world a worse place, and the improvement in life over…”
Everything, All the Time, Everywhere: How We Became Postmodern
“I gave this book every chance, I really did. I didn’t abandon it, but I skipped around a lot. It’s purportedly about postmodernism . Or, perhaps about a history of how we ended up postmodern? I wasn’t sure. Each chapter was basically a history of many things, often pop-culture. I would read a…”
False Idol – Why the Christian Right Worships Donald Trump
“ This is both an examination of how religion and politics merged in the last generation, and a personal story of the author’s widening gap with his own family over issues of faith. ”
The Fracture Zone: A Return to the Balkans
“ There’s a specific font that has become associated with the early stages of neighborhood re-development. ”
Going against the decluttering craze: the book hoarders who defy Marie Kondo
“ A beautiful contemplation of the physical book as art object, with pictures of people who collection for no other reason than that books make them happy. ”
“As human beings, we chronically suffer from what I call ‘Gratifying Narrative Syndrome,’ or a desire to confirm narratives that we find emotionally or psychologically gratifying. You see these all the time – stories and paradigms that click with us for some reason, and that we very much want to be…”
The Great Climate Migration
“ Ultimately, climate change is a migration problem. Humanity can survive it, but lots of people are going to have to move, and that causes other problems. ”
The Great Good Place: Cafes, Coffee Shops, Bookstores, Bars, Hair Salons, and Other Hangouts at the Heart of a Community
“ I didn’t write a ‘review’ of this book, but I wrote an article about it for Boing Boing: The long, slow death of our watering holes ”
The Greatest Privilege We Never Talk About: Beauty
“ Attractive people generally have easier lives. We all know this intuitively, but we rarely acknowledge it. ”
The Hacking of the American Mind: The Science Behind the Corporate Takeover of Our Bodies and Brains
Half of Marriages End in Divorce?
“ It’s a lot harder than you think to calculate how many marriages end in divorce. ”
Here Comes Everybody: The Power of Organizing Without Organizations
“ There is a ‘tourist gaze,’ whereby history and cultural heritage is packaged for what the locals believe tourists want to see, and what tourists believe is ‘authentic.’ Local economies perpetuate this overemphasis and misrepresentation in exchange for tourist dollars. ”
How Games Marketing Invented Toxic Gamer Culture
“ In the early 2000s, gaming companies portrayed bullying as a feature of their platforms to be celebrated. ”
“I own 25% of Blend Interactive , which is a significant percentage. This chunk of ownership binds me to this company, in the sense that I see the company as a sort of extension of myself in many ways. I’m not a minor owner – I’m a significant part of the day-to-day operations, and my input goes a…”
I Could Tell Who Had Drinking Problems. I Had to Serve Them Anyway.
“ Fascinating perspective from a bartender who watched several of her regular customers spin into self-destruction. A meditation on the culpability of forced, unwitting enablers. ”
Thoughts on middle-age male friendship, or the lack thereof.
I Used to Be a Human Being
“ A contemplation about the distraction of modern life. It’s long, but that’s kind of the point ”
I’m Black But Look White. Here Are The Horrible Things White People Feel Safe Telling Me.
“ A Black woman appears to be White, and she details her upbringing, life experience, and some of what ‘other’ White people have said to her, thinking she was the same race as them. ”
Information: A Very Short Introduction
It’s Good to Be a Man: A Handbook for Godly Masculinity
The Laundromat: Inside the Panama Papers Investigation of Illicit Money Networks and the Global Elite
“This is likely the definitive account of The Panama Papers – the massive data leak from the Panamanian law firm Mossack Fonseca. It also covers some other sensational data leaks, like SwissLeaks and Offshore Leaks. It’s good, no doubt. But it’s confusing, and there’s no real way around that. There…”
Messy Cities: Why We Can’t Plan Everything
The Moment of Lift: How Empowering Women Changes the World
“This is about all the problems faced by women, mostly in the Third World. Unpaid labor, domestic abuse, child marriage, genital cutting, etc. Fundamentally, the book is about women’s equality, and I commend Gates for revealing considerable details about her marriage to Bill. She goes on for many…”
“ Nigerian immigrants to the United States might be the most successful ethnic group in the country. ”
My Family’s Slave
“ A man tells the story of a ‘domestic’ who lived with his family for years and raised him and his siblings. Later in his life, he realized his parents were keeping her as a slave. ”
“ U.S. anthropologists will sometimes refer to ‘America/American’ by another word in order to maintain professional distance and objectivity from it. ”
Narrative Economics: How Stories Go Viral and Drive Major Economic Events
“Honestly, I didn’t totally get this book. The basic premise is that there are ‘narratives’ that drive economics. There are stories or explanations of things that we believe, and that cause economic things to happen. Some examples, from the book: Sellers can go into panic mode The Gold Standard is…”
I’m not against nudity in media, so long as it has a point.
“This is a theory that humans are inherently peaceful and are corrupted by modern society and economic systems. It’s mainly attributed to the French philosopher Jean-Jacques Rousseau, who wrote in his Discourse on the Origin of Inequality : …nothing is so gentle as man in his primitive state, when…”
The human condition is universal.
“As I write this, America is embroiled in the Ukrainian impeachment crisis. The claim is that Donald Trump withheld military aid to Ukraine in exchange for a political favor – he wanted them to investigate Joe Biden’s son, who is (or was) likely to be Trump’s democratic opponent in the 2020…”
One Hundred Years of Solitude
The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less
A Piece of Cake
“My daughter bought me this for my birthday. She had read the back of it at the bookstore, and ‘thought I would find it interesting.’ It was riveting. It’s actually a fairly nondescript story of abuse, but it’s intense. The author is currently an attorney in San Francisco. The book begins with her…”
Primates of Park Avenue: A Memoir
“I read this book for the pure titillation level, because I’m fascinated by high society in general and New York culture in particular. And the book delivered on that level – there are some horrifying anecdotes where of a woman trying to fit into Upper East Side mommies. Women who use Birkin bags as…”
Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking
The Reality Bubble: Blind Spots, Hidden Truths, and the Dangerous Illusions That Shape Our World
“I didn’t get this book for about the first third of it. Then I figured out what it was all about – It’s about all the hidden things in life that we ignore from day to day. Where our food comes from, where are energy comes from, where our garbage grows, what’s in outer space, etc. We live in a…”
Red Pill Blue Pill: How to Counteract the Conspiracy Theories That Are Killing Us
Research Design: Qualitative, Quantitative, and Mixed Methods Approaches
The Road to Character
“This was a good book, though not quite what I expected. I guess I didn’t expect anything, but the introduction didn’t quite set the book up for what it was. The intro discusses a radio show replay the author heard. It was an episode of ‘Command Performance’ that happened right after V-J day back in…”
Roman Life: 100 B.C. to A.D. 200
Scale: The Universal Laws of Growth, Innovation, Sustainability, and the Pace of Life in Organisms, Cities, Economies, and Companies
“This book is undoubtedly interesting, but it’s a bit meandering. The basic idea is that…things (anything, apparently), ‘scale’ according to universal laws. Meaning, as something gets bigger, it grows less linearly along different axes, and this is a very predictable phenomenon. For example, an…”
The Scandal of the Evangelical Mind
“This book caused quite a stir when it was published in 1994. This is the quote that upset a lot of people: The scandal of the evangelical mind is that there isn’t one. The author was basically saying that evangelical Christians have stopped thinking rationally about anything. Unfortunately, it was…”
SCUM Manifesto
The Sea We Swim In: How Stories Work in a Data-Driven World
“A lovely analysis of why stories matter so much to us. the book dissects the concept of ‘story’ into these areas: Author Audience Journey Character World Detail Voice Platform Immersion The author provides lots of examples of each, from both the creative arts and the business world. I’m having…”
The Second Mountain
“I like David Brooks. I like how he writes. It flows nicely. And this is good, because this book doesn’t really go in a straight line. It meanders. It wanders around a point, completely unfocused. ‘The First Mountain’ we climb is superficial success – money, job, romance. ‘The Second Mountain’ is a…”
Secret Revenge of an Assault Survivor
“ Horrifying but ultimately triumphant story of a young girl who fought back and kept the secret for decades. ”
See, I Told You So
Social Emergence: Societies as Complex Systems
The Social Guidebook to Norway: An Illustrated Introduction
Improving the plight of the working poor can be a trickier problem than you think.
The Square and the Tower: Networks and Power, from the Freemasons to Facebook
“The basic gist of this book is that the world is made up of (1) hierarchies, like governments and corporations; and (2) networks, like terror networks, the Freemasons, and old college buddies. We tend to think that power resides in hierarchical networks, but often the power is in the networks….”
Stand Firm: Resisting the Self-Improvement Craze
“Interesting book on resisting the drive for self-improvement. Discusses how trying to improve ourselves can be toxic and lead us into constantly thinking that we’re not worthy. The book encourages people to be happy with what they have, rather than constantly thinking that it’s not enough. It was…”
Status and Culture: How Our Desire for Social Rank Creates Taste, Identity, Art, Fashion, and Constant Change
“I had trouble with this book. It’s an examination of how trends move through cultures and are used to gain status. But, weirdly, it’s almost too basic. The author starts with a long-winded explanation of ‘status’ …which will surprise no one. It’s one of those things we all know, and I’m just not…”
The Sum of Small Things: A Theory of the Aspirational Class
“ Vaguely interesting book about how people spend their money on ‘luxury’ items in order to publicly denote a certain level of social class. Lots of figures, graphs, etc. Not 100% of the point that it was trying to get at, honestly. ”
SuperFreakonomics: Global Cooling, Patriotic Prostitutes And Why Suicide Bombers Should Buy Life Insurance
Them: Why We Hate Each Other - and How to Heal
“Wonderful book that just confirmed what I already knew – political polarization is out of control, and the only way to fix it is from the bottom up. Sasse is a Republican senator from Nebraska. He’s also an outspoken critic of Donald Trump. He wrote this book in 2018, right in the middle of the…”
There Is Power in a Union: The Epic Story of Labor in America
This Is Water: Some Thoughts, Delivered on a Significant Occasion, about Living a Compassionate Life
“This is simply the text of David Foster Wallace’s famed commencement speech given at Kenyon College a few years before he took his own life. What’s interesting is the format – it’s a tiny book (the speech is fairly short), and each sentence is on it’s own page. Seriously – an entire page is each…”
Three Theories for Why You Have No Time
“ Advances in technology haven’t really saved us any time. They’ve just given us more stuff and raised our expectations for how life should work. ”
Throwing Rocks at the Google Bus: How Growth Became the Enemy of Prosperity
Too Many People Want to Travel
“ Over-tourism is a new word to describe throngs of people clogging destination sites around the world. The larger trend at work is that more people are economically able to travel, especially the Chinese, which is a significant part of the world population. ”
Too Much Dark Money In Almonds
“ This essay describes the ‘coordination problem,’ where spending money to solve a problem often requires coordination with other people to do the same, or the money is wasted. Conversely, spending money on yourself always leads to a benefit. ”
“Marriage is a bundle. It is, all at once, a contract, a romance, and a spiritual institution. But I don’t think it’s going to stay this way. Marriage is actually three structures, layered on top of one another. As it’s most basic level, marriage is a contract . When you get married, you are…”
Uncomfortable Conversations with a Jew
The Usefulness of Useless Knowledge
“ Wonderful book form of a classic, 80-year-old essay from Harpers. One of my favorite pieces of writing. Not all who wander are lost, and we fail to appreciate the shocking number of innovations discovered by people who were just kinda screwing around… ”
“Here’s an article which has reinforced a paradigm that I think gets ignored too often by the environmentally conscious: when considering an optional you find lacking, always consider the alternative or the default, and weigh the option against that . Because, no matter how much you don’t like…”
The Vertigo Years: Europe 1900-1914
Very Important People: Status and Beauty in the Global Party Circuit
“An entertaining and well-researched examination of the ‘club economy’ – a world where ‘club promoters’ worked ‘models and bottles.’ There exists a job where you get models to nightclubs to just…exist. It turns out that rich men spend stupid amounts of money in the presence of attractive women, so…”
Visualizing the World’s Plummeting Fertility Rate
“ Humans are not generating enough replacements to maintain the world’s current population. ”
Waiter Rant: Thanks for the Tip – Confessions of a Cynical Waiter
War and Peace
“What can you say about this book that has been said a million times? it’s many things in one: a novel, a history, a philosophy, etc. I enjoyed reading it. It took me 50 days of fairly consistent reading – 30-60 minutes per day. The chapters are quite short, taking maybe five minutes, so I always…”
The Way Things Ought to Be
We Are Doomed: Reclaiming Conservative Pessimism
We Are The Nerds: The Birth and Tumultuous Life of Reddit, the Internet’s Culture Laboratory
“Wonderfully complete history of Reddit, from the childhood lives of founders Alexis Ohanian and Steve Huffman, through the (ultimately tragic) life of Aaron Swartz. The book has short chapters, and is mainly episodic – each chapter covers some moment in the history of Reddit, and they’re all there:…”
What It’s Like to Grow Up With More Money Than You’ll Ever Spend
“ The middle-aged granddaughter of Roy Disney is surprisingly realistic about all the money she inherited and how that has charted the course of her life. ”
What the Dormouse Said: How the Sixties Counterculture Shaped the Personal Computer Industry
“The title promised a discussion about how the 60s ‘shaped’ the personal computer industry, but I just didn’t see it. The book is a history of technology and how the seminal figures of that period interacted with culture, but it didn’t show me how society ‘shaped’ the industry, as much as the…”
What would happen in an apocalyptic blackout?
“ Without electricity, the world is a very different place, as recent history in Venezuela has shown. ”
“ A 2013 story about poverty in Appalachia. The author is a conservative, but he concedes that there are no easy solutions to what happens in the back woods. Hauntingly well-written. ”
White Trash: The 400-Year Untold History of Class in America
“This is the story of class in America. Specifically the ‘lower’ class. In contrast to the Utopian image of Colonial America, the early years of the country were marked with extreme poverty. Before the slave trade geared up, most of the people sent to the New World were poor white people,…”
“ A man’s father wanted three golf balls cryptically displayed at his funeral. This Reddit thread investigates the possible reasons why. ”
Why Geography Matters More Than Ever
“An in-depth look at the geopolitics and geo-economics of the world. The author goes around the globe and explains each country’s situation, historically, geographically, politically, and economically. What’s interesting is that a lot of the book is not actually about geography, but that’s the…”
Why Hackers Win: Power and Disruption in the Network Society
Why I hate living in my tiny house
“ Not surprisingly, living in a 240 sq. ft. house works better on a glossy TV show than it does in real life. ”
“I was thinking about marketing this week while I was on a trip, and two things occurred to me that I find distasteful about the discipline. I’m not claiming all marketing is like this, but I’d call it a majority, certainly. Marketing is often about lying. A lot of marketing is simply overstating…”
Why Sexual Morality May be Far More Important than You Ever Thought
“ A summary of the work of J.D. Unwin, who found a correlation between the sexual restraint of a culture and its productivity and ultimate survival. ”
Why Your Christian Friends and Family Members Are So Easily Fooled by Conspiracy Theories
“ An examination of why we’re predisposed toward conspiracy theories in general and how this is magnified by religion. ”
Winners Take All: The Elite Charade of Changing the World
“Last year, I had lunch with a friend. She is very much on the Left, politically. I mentioned that I thought Bill Gates was a great humanitarian. She responded in a way that unsettled me (I’m paraphrasing). Sure he gives a way a lot of money, but we really need to examine how the world let someone…”
The World Until Yesterday: What Can We Learn from Traditional Societies?
The Worst Patients in the World
“ The biggest problem with the American health care system might be, well, Americans. We are terrible at safeguarding our own health and terrible at interacting with health care providers. ”