Content tagged with "psychology"

Better, Not Perfect: A Realist’s Guide to Maximum Sustainable Goodness
Book Review
August 16, 2023
244

This book was written by Harvard professor as a paean to Utilitarianism. That’s a philosophy that says every decision we make should be designed to provide the greatest possible value to the most people. Pure utilitarianism would be tough to achieve, and that’s conceded in the book: we try to be…

The Elephant in the Brain: Hidden Motives in Everyday Life
Deane’s Library
Book Review
May 17, 2020
105

A good discussion about our hidden motives in all sorts of cognitive arenas like art, religion, politics, etc. We spend most of lives lying to ourselves about why we do things. Their thoughts on healthcare are interesting. Namely, we over-user health care because we take comfort in the idea that…

Emotional Intelligence 2.0
Deane’s Library
Book Review
May 23, 2014
16
The Extended Mind: The Power of Thinking Outside the Brain
Deane’s Library
Book Review
July 31, 2022
273

This is an interesting look about all the ways we think and process information other than the neurons and synapses in our brains. To be fair, we don’t really think outside the brain, but external stimuli help us process information in ways we don’t often realize. Each chapter covers a way think:…

The Great Beanie Baby Bubble: Mass Delusion and the Dark Side of Cute
Deane’s Library
Book Review
August 17, 2022
342

Enormously entertaining book about the Beanie Baby craze of the mid and late 90s. The book goes deep into Ty Warner’s backstory. He’s the founder of the company that bears his first name. He’s a man who spent his entire career in “plush,” which is the industry term for stuffed animals. Warner is an…

The Great Good Place: Cafes, Coffee Shops, Bookstores, Bars, Hair Salons, and Other Hangouts at the Heart of a Community
Deane’s Library
Book Review
June 19, 2014
59

I didn’t write a “review” of this book, but I wrote an article about it for Boing Boing: The long, slow death of our watering holes

The Intelligence Trap: Why Smart People Make Dumb Mistakes
Deane’s Library
Book Review
October 16, 2021
235

A book about how smart people are sometimes very stupid. Sometimes, we can be so smart and analytical that we outsmart ourselves, lose sight of the forest for the trees, and come full-circle back to stupid. One example is Arthur Conan-Doyle, the nominally brilliant author of Sherlock Holmes. He was…

Intuition at Work: Why Developing Your Gut Instincts Will Make You Better at What You Do
Deane’s Library
Book Review
July 24, 2017
61

This is the “business” version of Klein’s more academic “sources of power.” A good book, but a lot to absorb. The key takeaway: map potential decision points, and role-play and practice scenarios.

The Marshmallow Test: Mastering Self-Control
Deane’s Library
Book Review
February 22, 2016
17
Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
Deane’s Library
Book Review
May 5, 2017
151

The core point of this book is fantastic and wonderful: we are creatures of growth, and if we approach our lives with the mindset that we can change and are not fixed, then it will have a huge impact on our development and potential. That’s it – you could have written that in a blog post. But the…

Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth, and Happiness
Deane’s Library
Book Review
October 1, 2022
369

This is a book about behavioral economics – why humans make the choices they do, and how they can be persuaded to make other choices. Well, not “persuaded” so much, but rather – wait for it – nudged. A “nudge” is a change to how a choice is framed or presented that causes people to pick an option…

The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less
Deane’s Library
Book Review
October 2, 2016
20
The Reality Bubble: Blind Spots, Hidden Truths, and the Dangerous Illusions That Shape Our World
Deane’s Library
Book Review
July 26, 2020
136

I didn’t get this book for about the first third of it. Then I figured out what it was all about – It’s about all the hidden things in life that we ignore from day to day. Where our food comes from, where are energy comes from, where our garbage grows, what’s in outer space, etc. We live in a…

The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery
Deane’s Library
Book Review
December 2, 2019
164

The value of this book depends on how much faith you place in the Enneagram, an ancient method of categorizing personalities into nine different types. The book is wonderfully well-written, but it suffers from two core problems. First, since we’re all one type , then about 80% of the book won’t be…

Sources of Power: How People Make Decisions
Deane’s Library
Book Review
July 17, 2017
66

The result of years of research about decision making. Spoiler: we rarely compare alternative paths of action. Instead, we seize on something we think will work, then evaluate that. If we decide it’s unworkable, then we move on to the next obvious option, and down the list.

Strangers Drowning: Grappling with Impossible Idealism, Drastic Choices, and the Overpowering Urge to Help
Deane’s Library
Book Review
September 5, 2016
425

This is a book about Do Gooders – people who are compelled to help other people, often to a fault. The book is a series of stories about these people. These are people that sacrifice their lives, their happiness, to make life better for others. The book is a study in some people’s inability to…

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life
Deane’s Library
Book Review
January 23, 2018
199

Meh. I just didn’t get most of this. I feel like this is a self-help book for people who don’t read many self-help books because a lot of it is obvious. Manson seems to be trying to play the “get real” card. He basically says that life is too short to care about unimportant things, so you have to…

The Tacit Dimension
Deane’s Library
Book Review
September 23, 2016
15
Thinking, Fast and Slow
Deane’s Library
Book Review
February 6, 2017
48

Fascinating, but a bit of a slog to get through. Gets tedious towards the end. Key takeaway: you’re not good at thinking, you’re just good at thinking that you’re good at thinking.

Triggers: Creating Behavior That Lasts
Deane’s Library
Book Review
December 28, 2015
164

This is one of those books which launches with a clear premise and then loses its way. The book is purportedly about “triggers,” things in the environment that get in the way of you changing as a person. Unfortunately, about halfway through, it became a standard-issue self-improvement book, and…

Wanting: The Power of Mimetic Desire in Everyday Life
Deane’s Library
Book Review
July 31, 2022
459

This book explains “The Romantic Lie,” which is a theory proposed by Rene Girard. It says that we’re fooling ourselves when we think we want something just because we do – we actually only want things because we’ve been programmed by other’s to want them. This is what’s known as “mimetic desire,” or…

The Weekend Effect: The Life Changing Benefits of Taking Time Off and Challenging the Cult of Overwork
Deane’s Library
Book Review
October 6, 2017
75

Nice reading, but I don’t know that I learned anything particularly new. She makes a case for taking time away from work, and has chapters about things you can do and why they matter, but I’m not sure I’m any better off for having read it.