Content tagged with "life"

Doing Something Poorly
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March 5, 2019
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I heard something that resonated with me the other day : Anything worth doing is worth doing poorly. This, of course, is a play on this common saying: Anything worth doing is worth doing well. But, rather than making fun of an earnest, feel-good aphorism, what the former is saying is this: some…

I Miss Real Fire
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March 1, 2009
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A reflection on burning wood.

I Miss You
Personal Blog
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April 13, 2019
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Thoughts on middle-age male friendship, or the lack thereof.

It’s All About Perspective
Personal Blog
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November 18, 2010
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Craig Wilson points out that people need to put stuff in perspective before they start complaining too much. I was reminded of this the other day when I listened to all those folks on that stranded cruise ship off the coast of Mexico. The ship had a fire and lost its power. No air conditioning. No…

Life Doesn’t Come with Cheerleaders
Personal Blog
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February 9, 2011
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My 9-year-old daughter Gabrielle was making our bed yesterday. It’s her only chore. She has to do it every weekday. When it was done, it was horrible. The bedspread was all askew, the pillows were a mess, etc. She had totally phoned it in. Now, I’m not anal-retentive by any means, but, at the same…

The Nicest Thing Anyone Has Done For Me
Personal Blog
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October 20, 2019
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A story about an act of kindness done to me, and how hard it might have been for the giver.

The Power of the Persona You Give Yourself
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February 18, 2012
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In any driving course, when learning how to recover from a skid, the instructor will always hammer the same thing into you: “Look where you want to go because you tend to go where you look.” it’s good advice, and I can vouch that it works . The same thing is true of your self-image, I’m learning….

Rules Are Rules
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March 5, 2011
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I’ve been thinking a quite a bit lately about consequences, and how today’s society tries to qualify everything – “well, I know it was against the rules, BUT…” Brigham Young University recently dismissed a star player from their basketball team. Brandon Davies was kicked off the team because he…

Why Fun Isn’t Always “Fun”
Personal Blog
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January 1, 2014
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A friend and I were discussing fun the other day. Specifically, what do we do for fun? We’re both in our early 40s with young kids . We were lamenting the fact that we have very few hobbies and don’t really do much for pure fun anymore. I’ve been thinking that the problem is that “fun” gets…